As a woman, your takeaway is that while you may get frustrated at the lack of quality responses, put yourself in a man’s shoes.
He has no idea what to write in his first email to you, and he’s competing with hundreds of men for your attention.
An important aspect of any healthy relationship – whether formed on Ok Cupid or not – is ensuring proper sexual health and safety.
As a member of the Ok Cupid community it is your responsibility to make sure you do the following, if you choose to engage in sexual activity: In the case that something has happened, immediately call 911.
These guidelines are not intended to be a substitute for your own judgment.
• It took 2 months, 13 days for the most popular woman’s inbox to fill up.
For all the talk about “The End of Men” and how gender roles have been obliterated and women can write to men first, blahblahblah, here’s what ACTUALLY happened after four months: • The women as a group received over 20 times more messages than the men.