She is drawn to you for the same reason so many men chase younger women: she is attracted by your youthful enthusiasm. If you are just a boy toy she turns to for sex, she will get bored with you quickly.She loves your appetite for life and is intoxicated by your ambition and the fact that so much of your life is ahead of you. If you have goals and tell her about them, it will definitely turn her on.After being left for a skinny blonde 20 years her junior, High50's new dating columnist, Louisa Whitehead-Payne*, needed to have sex again after a long drought. A year after my 28-year marriage ended, I came up for air.And having not been a child bride, I was definitely the wrong side of 50.
We literally talked for 20 minutes and then went and had sex.No matter how hot, smart, or successful she is, an older woman will always be afraid you’re going to leave her for a younger one.It’s the one thing she can’t compete with, and she’s smart enough to know youth in women, by itself, is attractive.Even if she’s attracted to you, most older women will feel some guilt about your age.
Ignore it and move forward as if she’s giving you the green light. If she really wants you to stop pursuing her, she will not be shy about it.I’m not saying you can’t check out younger women when you’re alone, but when you’re together, this is an absolute no-no.